The Blame Game

Sometimes relationships come to and end, and sometimes if you're lucky they flourish. It's easy to point the finger at the other person once things go sour/end/hit a speed bump or whatever. But before you go blaming the other person, be sure to look at yourself, and what you may have contributed to the relationship. Or maybe just recognize that what you had to offer, the other wasn't able to appreciate it. But do not, and I repeat do NOT try and blame an outside source for the break up. I've been in this situation, and I have tried to blame another woman for the fact that my boyfriend was a slut. But guess what, it wasn't her fault, it was his. He couldn't keep his dick in his pants. Or if your significant other chooses to work more, or hang out with friends more, than hang out with you; you can't blame the friends or his work. It is his fault for choosing to do those other things than to hang out with you. And why would you want to be with someone like that anyways? We've all been in some fucked up situation or another where we want to blame someone else for the problems that lie within our own relationship in order to easily forgive your lover, but if these problems were to arise, and there is a possible outside source (girl, friend, work, whatever) why would you want to be with them anyway?