most girls don't mean what they say. there is usually some underlying meaning, where you boys need to decipher a code. for example: when a girl says "go ahead, do what you want," they really mean, "you're gonna pay if you don't stay here with me, and do what I WANT."
however, secret #1 is that not all girls are like this. especially city girls-we don't have time for all the bull shit-we say what we mean, and mean what we say...straight to the point. no need to double think our words.